Are you a sensual woman?
Of course you are! You’re here on The Erotic Woman website and you’re having a marvelous time browsing around, enjoying the sights and stories.
Sensual women are unique in the world of modern women. They are happy, confident and satisfied women. They are sisters in pursuit of pleasure. Read on for three things that most Sensual Women I know have in common.
Sensual Women find happiness in their lives every single day.
Sensual Women know how to find, and keep, happiness in their lives. It is possible to find joy in a day even if you ruin your best blouse, lose your boyfriend and your job. I’ll be honest with you, if those things all happen in one day even a Sensual Woman would have down moments, but she will also find warm rays of sunshine to carry her through to tomorrow where hopefully things will be better.
Sensual Women attract men, lots of men.
Men find Sensual Women fascinating and irresistible. Sensual Women are fun to be with and find pleasure in all kinds of things. They smile and laugh and enjoy life. They share these pleasures with their friends and their lovers. Which leads us to…
Sensual Women make the best lovers.
Don’t you think so? A Sensual Woman is aware of her body and knows what she likes. And she has the confidence to ask for it. She doesn’t expect her lover to figure it out all on his own. She shows him, in the most delectable ways, what it is she likes. And the pleasure doesn’t stop there. Sensual Women also take great pleasure in pleasing their lovers, and the men certainly do enjoy that!
Boosting Your Personal Sensuality…
Even the most Sensual Woman has a bad day. No coffee in the morning, a bad hair day or a disappointment in a relationship. We all have moments when we need a boost, when we need a zap of Sensual Magic to get us back on the right track and enjoying life again.
This column is designed to help you identify with your sensual self and provide you with little tips and tricks to keep you in your sensual prime no matter what little pitfalls come
your way. It is also a column that will support your sensual side and allow you to expand it in all directions, to find your personal pleasure each and every day.
If you’d like to feel closer to the Sensual Woman inside of you, read on for a good tool to help you find happiness in each and every day.
At the Beginning: Discovering what makes you happy.
Today we start with the foundation for sensuality – happiness. Unfortunately on some days, happiness seems farther away than the moon. When these days come around, and they do for us all, taking the steps in this first column will give you a person to turn for advice to bring happiness back into your life – yourself.
Happiness is a feeling of well-being, sometimes it lasts for hours, sometimes seconds. It has the ability to make us smile, cry, laugh or sigh. It is an emotion we should allow ourselves to feel every day. Intense happiness is pleasure and is also a wonderful thing.
The problem is most people see happiness as a huge thing, that everything in their world must be right for them to be happy. This is not true. If we waited for everything to fall into place to be happy, well, most of us would never get there and we’d waste our lives being miserable.
Bringing happiness into your life when it has disappeared is simply a matter of discovering your own pleasures, those things that make you happy every time you experience them. It is amazing how one small thing, like a favorite food or a funny movie, can lift your spirits. It is something to enjoy – no matter how small. And it is enough to make a bad day better.
Sensual Woman Assignments Numbers 1 and 2: Find a Sensual Woman Journal and create your Happiness List.
Being a Sensual Woman means knowing yourself and accepting who you are. In each column I will give you an assignment, or two, to help you get in touch with the Sensual Woman inside of yourself and help her become stronger. Some of these assignments will be easy for you, some others will not.
To help yourself stay centered and happy as a Sensual Woman, I suggest you begin a Sensual Woman Journal. You can use any type of book, journal or even your computer if you like. It does not matter. All you need is some place to write down your thoughts.
Once you’ve found the perfect place for your journal, your first entry will be your Happiness List. This list should contain things large and small that simply make you happy. Perhaps it is a favorite person, a dreamy movie or a decadent dessert. Think about why these things make you happy and make a note of that if you’d like.
Start your entry with: “My name is _____ and some things that make me happy are:” Add to the list whenever you find something new that makes you smile. Add pictures or notes from friends or anything that might lift your spirits on a bad day.
Using your Happiness List
When your day dawns dark and gloomy, or it goes downhill in the afternoon or evening, pull out your Sensual Woman Journal and have a look at that list.
The Happiness List is meant to be a reminder to you of what you truly enjoy. On very bad days we are so down on ourselves that we can’t believe we’ll ever be happy again. This list is proof that you can do something about it. Look it over, choose a thing or two to add to your day.
Maybe you can have a lunch date with your crazy friend who always makes you smile. Perhaps one of those glorious chocolates would do the trick, maybe a long walk by the water.
The power to be happy again is yours; you just have to give yourself the chance. It might not come all at once, but one step at a time is better than wallowing in misery. Really, what have you got to lose? Nothing good so give it a shot next time you feel a bit blue.
Once the grey skies part and the sun begins to shine in your world, the Sensual Woman in you will be back on track and have the upper hand on life, making everyone envious of her confidence and secret glow of satisfaction.
This is just one of the many Sensual Woman secrets to have stashed away for a rainy day – the Happiness List.
Well, that is it for now. Get working on that Happiness List and plan to join me next time for an eye-opening discussion: “Getting a Man to Notice You – The Sensual Woman’s Guide to Eye Contact.”
