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Dealing with a man who's hung like a horse can be deeply (quite literally/ large penis) uncomfortable, leading to 'cervix in the throat' syndrome, where you're convinced he's going to break you at any moment. But the right position can work wonders to minimize a man's meat. That, and a hell of a lot of foreplay; when you're seriously turned on, the cervix tilts backwards slightly, getting it further out of the way of a thrusting cock.

Of course, the bigger a man is, the more likely he is to ask for anal sex or deep throat; it's just sod's law. If you are going to go for the former, make sure he spends a very, very, very long time on anal foreplay – and uses a vat of lube. As to the latter, unless you've passed a sword-swallowing course at your local circus, you may have to sadly decline (or aim it at the inside of your cheek – he probably won't notice the difference.)

Reverse CAT (Coital Alignment Technique)

Start in the traditional woman on top position, with the man's cock inside you as deep as is comfortable. Gradually move until you're lying directly on top of him. By gently rocking and circling your hips, your clitoris and pubic area get maximum stimulation while his penis stimulates you inside. Close your legs for maximum pleasure. Because you're controlling things, you can decide how deep he gets to go – and the angle means that he won't be able to get every last inch inside you, no matter how hard he pushes.

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Flat doggie (prone bone)

A big boy who wants it doggie style – what could be worse? But don't worry, with a bit of tweaking, this position is entirely possible. Rather than kneeling on all fours, just lie flat on the bed with the bloke behind you. He can slide in easily but penetration is shallower than with traditional doggie, so you should find it easier to cope.

Standing sex

If a blokes' huge, forget wrapping your legs around his waist during standing sex. Instead, stand on a telephone book or on a stair higher than him, so that you're at the right height for him to penetrate you. He can then slide in without slipping you his full length. This is a great position for when you've just got back from the pub and fancy a quickie.

With a bit of experimentation, it's possible to enjoy sex with a man of any size. Just make sure that you're relaxed, and have spent enough time on foreplay; with a small man, it'll help you come from less stimulation, and with a big boy, it'll help you enjoy every inch of him. And what more could any woman want?

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