Your ex has had enough and decided to pack up and leave you behind like yesterday’s news. What makes it worse is they’re giving you the silent treatment and won’t even answer your calls or give you a chance to explain yourself. We all have been there and it is frustrating! I am sure you are like me, googling "how to deal with silent treatment" - well, folks, here is a great list of advice to help you out right here on saltyvixenstories.com
One of the things people find hard to cope with is the sudden realization that we no longer hold any control over the person we have become so comfortable with. Suddenly they’re the ones calling the shots and you’re the one trying to catch up like an idiot.
Truth is once you’re dumped… your ex has the power and if they so choose to ignore you and block your phone number, there isn’t a whole lot you can do about it… or is there?
The best way to handle this sort of situation is to fight fire with fire. You don’t deserve to be treated like someone’s day old rags. If they’re so keen on erasing you from their life, then that’s what you’ll do too.
Stop calling them, txting them, sending them 3am msn messages. Erase them from your life… but only for now.
Sooner or later, they will start to catch on to what you’re doing and then you’re the one in control.
Problem with this scenario is it doesn’t really get you any closer to winning them back. They will think you’ve joined in on the games and this game playing could go on for months. This isn’t what you want. The whole point of ignoring them for now is for them to soften up and approach you again.
Once they reach out to you even in the slightest, it’s time to quit the games. It’s time to get your act together and do what it takes to get their attention again. Apologize, explain yourself, tell them you’re happy if they’re happy… in essence let them know you’re on their side and you don’t want to continue with the conflicts and drama.
