IF you haven't given a nipple orgasm or haven't experienced, you are missing out! It is oh-so-OOOOO-hot. In this article, I describe through words how to do it (as you know words are a wonderful visual (I do write erotica for a living! I talk through my 'words') . After the erotic description, I have put together an outline for you to follow- a step-by-step guide on how to give a nipple orgasm (and men can have them too!)
Many people see nipples and breasts as the second most erogenous area of the body next to the genitals. For women, having our breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases oxytocin, the chemical that makes us feel like we’re in love.
The nipples, in particular, are filled with nerve endings, making them especially tuned in to touch. Men enjoy stimulating the breasts during foreplay, but relatively few women have ever had an orgasms strictly form breast stimulation. Given that there is very little information on breast or nipple orgasm, most people discover nipple orgasm purely by accident.
Nipple orgasm can be learned or “awakened” through a process of connecting the right nerve impulses with the right moves. To give a woman a nipple orgasm, you must get her ready for it. Before you start stimulating her breasts, do some preliminary “work.” Deep kissing is the best foreplay for a nipple orgasm. Give her some great kissing with mouth and tongue. Kiss the sides of her mouth, and tell how pretty she is. Tease her ears and neck.
Then move on to kissing and massaging her breasts. Begin by caressing and licking both of her breasts. Alternate each one as you use the flat of your tongue in lapping motions all around her breasts covering every centimeter. Follow your tongue with light fingertip caresses, leaving her nipples until last.
When both breasts are suitably wet from your tongue, cup your hand over one breast at a time so that the tip of her nipple rests in between your thumb and your index finger. Squeeze the fingers together so that you raise her nipple slightly, and then begin licking it with the tip of your tongue in circular motions. After about a dozen licks or so, pucker your lips around the nipple and suck gently, but firmly, let your head bob up and down simultaneously. Don’t forget to give equal attention to both breasts and nipples.
After kissing and massaging the breasts for a good ten minutes, begin to focus on the nipples. It is with your tongue that you will increase speed and drive your woman through the roof with orgasmic pleasure.
Begin by lightly flicking the nipple for about two minutes and sucking the surrounding breast in with your mouth, and circling the flesh around the nipple with your tongue. Alternate back and forth between sucking and flicking, and in no more than five minutes you will have your woman squirming in pleasure that she has never felt before. When she is climaxing do not stop or change what you are doing. Let her push you away when she is ready.
Anyone who has ever experienced nipple orgasm will tell you it is an extraordinary magnifier of the orgasmic experience. Breast orgasm is a potent oxytocin releaser. Like lips in kissing, proper nipple stimulation turns nipples into little oxytocin switches. Though it takes some time to give a woman a nipple orgasm, just as it usually does to give a woman an orgasm with cunnilingus and intercourse, the time and effort is worth it.
Can men git it?
Yep! Men can absolutely have nipple orgasms, so you can try out nipple play with interested male partners, too.
Talk with your male partner about what techniques they’d like to try, what makes them feel good, and what you need to avoid. The method is the same, and communication — plus a sense of adventure — is key.
The Outline Guide- step-by-step:
Nipple play doesn’t have to lead to orgasm. But if you’re in the mood and want that endorphin rush, there are a few things you can do to help your body achieve the big O:
- Set the mood. Try turning down the lights, lighting some candles, and listening to some sensual tunes. A sexy and relaxing setting can really get the mood going.
- Get into a comfy position. This helps you focus on feeling pleasure without feeling uncomfortable.
- Let your mind wander. Think about what turns you on. Fantasizing can help you become even more aroused as you play around.
- Take your time. Enjoy all of the different sensations you feel from playing with your nipples and breasts. Experiment with techniques to find what makes you feel good.
- Start with your fingers. You can also add other sensations. Oils, lotions, clamps, and nipple vibrators can really ramp up the pleasure.
- Let one hand wander. You can explore your other erogenous zones or your clitoris. Even though you can achieve an orgasm from nipple play alone, why not make the experience explosive by exploring other parts of your body?
You can try nipple play on your own or have your partner give it a go. Don’t forget: You can do more than just play with your nipples! Exploring the rest of your breasts may help with arousal.
If you aren’t sure where to start, you may find it helpful to:
- Start slowly by first focusing on your breath. Take long, deep breaths to help you relax and get out of your head and into your body.
- Tease yourself by playing with other erogenous zones. Use your fingers and hands to stroke your belly. Then move on to your rib cage, and then around and in between your breasts. But don’t touch your breasts or nipples just yet — let the sensations build up first.
- Use a light touch to circle your breasts and areola with large strokes. Then ease into a gentle breast massage. When you’re ready, give your breasts a little squeeze.
- In between massaging and squeezing, trace your areola without touching your nipples. This will help build up anticipation.
- Now that you’re hot and excited, move your fingers over to your nipples. They should be erect. Start rubbing your nipples slowly, increasing speed and pressure as you become aroused.
- Ramp up the pleasure by pinching your nipples. A pinch will send a rush of sensation throughout your body. The harder the pinch, the better — but play around with pressure to find out what feels best to you.
- Don’t limit yourself to pinching. Try giving your nipples a slight twist or pull to see what gives you the most pleasure.
- Bring yourself to the edge of orgasm, pull back, then repeat. Play with your nipples and rub your body to create waves of orgasmic pleasure that ripple through your body. Arch your back and rock back and forth as you let your hands wander.
- When you’re ready, push yourself to your limit and let go. Enjoy the rush as you experience that big O.
All the techniques you’d use in a solo session can be followed when playing with a partner. But there are other things your partner can do to add to the experience, whether it’s during foreplay or right before you orgasm during intercourse.
If any of these techniques pique your interest, talk with your partner:
- Hot breath. Your partner starts by slowly breathing warm air around and onto your nipple to stimulate the nerves.
- Licking. There are so many ways your partner can lick your nipples. They can trace little circles around your areola, flick your nipple with the tip of their tongue, or use the flat of the tongue to cover more surface.
- Sucking. You don’t have to limit it to just licking. Your partner can suck on your nipples, too. Having them draw your nipples into their mouth will stimulate extra blood flow and increase sensitivity.
- Nibbling. If you’re into it, have your partner nibble a little bit on your nipples for added sensation.
Now that you know the basics, it’s time to ramp things up. Add in some fun extras to really get things hot, whether you’re solo or with a partner:
- Oils and lotions. Applying warming oils and lotions all over your breasts may enhance arousal during nipple play.
- Ice. Adding ice to nipple play can send chills throughout your body and cause an instant nipple erection.
- Vibes. Nipple vibrators are a great hands-free way to massage and stimulate your nipples as well as feel sensations throughout your whole breast.
- Clamps. Clamps, whether vibrating or not, can tease and titillate your nipples by giving you versatility. You can wear the clamps loosely for a little bit of fun or tighten them to apply pressure and intensify arousal.
