Just in case you didn’t know, women do ejaculate. The ‘juice’ is released from the Skene’s glands and is expelled from the urethra. The unfortunate news, however, is that just a handful of women have ever reached such an orgasmic height sufficient enough for them to ejaculate or squirt. Thumbs up to all you guys who do a great job. If you’re looking to learn more about making your lady ejaculate, keep reading.
Begin by doing those things that turn her wild. Nibble her ears and neck, gently and slowly suck her tits, and then proceed to licking her breasts. You could use your fingers to tickle her abdomen while sucking her tits and then proceed slowly to her inner thighs. Spend serious time on foreplay and don’t be quick to dive into her privates. She’ll be the one to lead you when she’s ready.
Before using your tongue at all, it’s important that IT is at room temperature – not too hot or cold. Begin by gently licking her from her vaginal entrance to her clitoris, following the outer edges of her vagina and on both sides. Repeat this technique slowly from top to bottom. Use the flat area of your tongue for this lick for maximum effect.
Now slowly use the tip of your tongue to trace the margin of her labia minora on both sides. Then re-position your head and gently suck her labia minora on one side – slowly, gently and lovingly. With the labia in your mouth, use your tongue to gently caress it. Do the same on the other side.
Take her clitoris softly into your warm mouth and suck on it slowly. You probably have her moaning wildly at this point. You want to remain creative by applying different strokes as well – top to bottom, bottom to top and circular. Basically, you should combine repeated sucking with strokes and intermittently go down to the labia minora.
While sucking her clitoris, don’t let your fingers stay idle, use them to fondle her breasts and tits and tickle her at those erogenous zones. Don’t overdo this as the game is just about to begin.
Some women also love it when you gently nibble their clitoris between your teeth. This requires so much gentleness. Let your imagination run wild people.
Next, roll your tongue into a tube and slowly insert it into her – thrusting it slowly. This turns several women wild with pleasure. If you can’t roll your tongue, too bad – you’ll just have to skip this step. If you do roll your tongue, you need to train your tongue because this move isn’t as easy as it sounds – it’s a tad strenuous initially but you’ll get used to it in time.
Give her clitoris a break for now; with your palms facing up slowly insert two fingers into her vagina and feel for her G-spot. Just in case you’re wondering, the G-spot is the round ball of skin an inch or two inside her vagina. Stroke this area with your fingers with gentle pressure. With each stroke, you’ll feel the G-spot get firmer. Stimulate the G-spot for a few seconds and keep working on her clitoris with your tongue.
It can’t be much longer before she has an orgasm and squirts all over you. Before she ejaculates, she may feel like urinating. Ask her to let go – it’s not urine. The ejaculate varies in quantity. Whatever happens, don’t act weird when it does come out. The more comfortable you are about it, the more intimate the sexual union. She’ll love you for it!
