Swing lifestyles where the wife swings while her husband chooses to remain monogamous are certainly nothing new to the lifestyle. The benefits of this particular minority within a minority lifestyle continued to be under-reported, though, even by organizations, clubs and publications devoted to the swing set.
Judy, 21, blonde and beautiful resident of Phoenix, Az, is the daughter of a free-thinking mother of 45 who believes that the sensuality and sexuality of a woman should not be confined by fear, sacrifice or marriage. Joyce and Rob, 45 and 49, Judy's parents, have been married "without hostilities" for nearly thirty years. Joyce, expressing her opinions to the writer, says, "To put it bluntly, I enjoy sex. I like being fucked. I like it, too, when men have the courage to let ME be in charge. Sometimes I want to ride at the top, start AND finish when I feel like it...and go on to the next pleasure. And it takes a real man to understand and accept THAT!" When I was 30, my steady lover was 21; at 40, he was 23; now, when I'm 45, my on-going lover is 21 again. And I'm married to the same faithful, loving, sharing, understanding husband for all those years. A husband truthful enough to admit that he appreciates other men sexually pleasing me."
Joyce's husband, Rob, encourages his wife's activities. "If she wasn't having sex outside our marriage, she (Joyce) would be boring, unbearable to live with," he says. "You see, it's the nature of the female of any species to seek change, to courageously explore taboo areas, to address truth. Joyce and our daughter Judy both believe that the female--married or single—should be free to have sex with whoever they want. And I agree with them. "Besides," says Rob, "when Joyce tells me how much she loves me for accepting her as she is, appreciating her naturalness, her wants and needs, I know she really means it. I mean, if she refuses to lie about a thing like her having 'great quantities of wholesome sex with a younger man,' why would she lie about loving me? You see, I trust her--completely, now. She tells me everything...even if I don't want to hear it....I certainly don't want her to stop her extramarital sex and start hating me instead."
"It's an open thing without hurt or hate or jealousy...just pleasure. Mine in receiving, Dave's in giving and Rob's in sharing," Joyce continues. Of course, my sex with Rob is GREAT, too, I have to add." Joyce puts on a video of her and husband having sex in the forest. Rob massages her feet, cuddles her, praises her for her courage and feminism, and makes passionate, long -lasting love to her. "What couple married thirty years are that passionate?" she asks. The video serves as proof of the couple's beliefs . "I understand and encourage Joyce to take other lovers because I know she requires and enjoys that," says Rob to the writer.
"I'm perfectly satisfied with Joyce as my only sex partner, however. I do not WANT to have sex with other women. And I'm truthful. Just accepting of the natural instincts and needs of the female. Do I love my wife right on through her solo-swinging?? More than you can believe, friend. I'd fight to the end to keep her and her lifestyle, you bet." "He doesn't have to worry," Joyce laughs. "I love him more now than ever."
Joyce and Rob attend lifestyle events together, most of the time, but only Joyce accepts other partners there, Rob usually just spending his time making new friends while his wife, Joyce, finds fulfillment with multiple, willing males attending. Judy, the couple's only daughter, is well-aware of her parent's lifestyle: "My parents explained the lifestyle to me when I was a child," she says. "I grew up with it. My husband, James, accepted it. We live it." Judy explains that her husband was informed before their marriage that she would be following her parents lifestyle. "I've chosen Lance as my steady sex partner," Judy offers. Lance, present during the interview, is 21, single, black, a college student. He says that he just needs "no-strings, noncommittal, clean sex" to keep him "concentrated through college." Husband of Judy, James, 22, reports that the situation is satisfactory to him as well. "Actually," he says, "I enjoy the competition very much. And it keeps Judy happy, and that's my main concern. And, yes," James' admits, "I do enjoy the facts that my wife turns on other guys; that they can fuck her but not keep her. I believe that this is as safe and secure as sex can truthfully get; I don't ever worry about my wife losing interest in me, leaving me. That I can come home to a happy and contented wife, rather than facing frustration at my front door, is important to me, too. All of this keeps me at peace, attracted to my liberated wife and in no need of affairs with other women.
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James, like his father-in-law, prefers to remain monogamous to his swinging wife. He finds so much enjoyment in Judy's alternative lifestyle that he encourages his wife to attend lifestyle events, however. James, at those events, would be the one entertaining guests with his fine sense of humor while his wife enjoys the attention of as many willing males as possible. Judy, a bit of an exhibitionist, prefers the rooms with a view towards the action going on inside for her encounters. "I like to have as many people as possible watching me have sex," she says. To empathize this, Judy, at the interview site, kisses her husband, James, then unzips Lance's pants, places her hand inside them, moves it around rapidly, withdraws his cock, strokes it openly, smiles at her husband and this writer...as if to illustrate her point. "They (media, religion, instruction)," Judy goes on, her small hand still stroking the large cock, "can condemn me for my sexual freedom and preach to me about THIS (at this point she pushes Lance down into a chair, pulls up her mini, mounts him and begins an open sex act--husband, writer, her mother and father looking on approvingly) but NOBODY's gonna distract me from my pleasures..."
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The dark cock of Lance is a sharp contrast to Judy's bushy blonde cunt hair. "Understand," Judy's husband James says, intently watching his wife riding the black cock of Lance, " We're promoting marriage first, sex second. I think that point is important." Judy stops her act with Lance, says, "I got married because I knew what I wanted: A great, understanding, monogamous-to-me-husband (James) and a terrific extramarital sex life. Rather than a malfunctional sex life filled with lies or frustration, I choose to select both an understanding, accepting husband and a lifestyle meant to satisfy my needs in a natural way. I had no problem. Any woman can do it. I simply explained my beliefs to the guys. They accepted. Life goes on.
"But without sexual frustration or fear of divorce..." Judy dismounts Lance, walks over to a sofa, lays on her back, puts one leg high on the wall, drapes the other one on the floor. Lance understands. Within a minute he's fucking Judy in the missionary position. Judy stops the action, gets on all fours, still on the wide sofa, and says to Lance," It's impolite to block the view of the guests." Judy was concerned that we couldn't see the black cock driving into the blonde-haired cunt, the large dark balls slapping against her young, firm ass. Lance is fucking her doggie style now. Our view is much clearer. The black cock continues to pump into the blonde pussy for almost 20 minutes. With three rapid and hard thrusts, Lance shoots a load of cum deep inside Judy, withdraws his prick and stands up. Cum oozes out of the cunt, coats the blonde pussy hair with whiteness.
Judy rubs the cum into her cunt hair, sits facing forward, Lance's still rock-hard cock right in her face. She puts her tiny hand around the thick cock, strokes the length of it a few times, looks at us and asks, "Isn't it beautiful?" She buries her face into the curly black cock-hair. Long blonde hair draped over the black cock does look like a natural thing. After licking the huge balls for a few minutes, she uses one hand to cup the balls, the other to continue stroking the cock. Still holding Lance's balls with one hand, the other hand now wrapped around the base of Lance's shaft, Judy smiles at us, moves forward and manages to get about 8 inches of the 10 inch cock into her mouth. Judy is licking and sucking 8 inches of the black cock while her right hand strokes the remaining 2 inches, the left hand cups the huge balls. After about 10 minutes of sucking, licking and stroking, Lance fires his cum into the mouth of Judy and backs away from her, his cock finally becoming flaccid. Judy looks over our way. We see cum dribbling out of the corners of her mouth. With fingers of her right hand, she gathers up the excess cum and walks over to her husband, saying "please lick them (fingers) clean." Her husband complies immediately. It's apparent he likes this part very much.
James and Rob, husbands of the sexually free ladies, escort me to the door. As I look back inside the house, Judy waves her right hand in a good-bye to me. I wave back. I realize that this particular set of swing circumstances--married wives solo-swinging, their husbands approving--does not constitute the main body of the swing lifestyle (a minority within a minority) but do believe that the practice deserves more attention.
