Want to know how to give mind-blowing oral sex in under 5 minutes? Try this hot idea- The Kivin Method, also known as “Tahitian cunnilingus,” is an amazing oral sex technique that will delight any woman. It’s a method that can give a woman a rapid, intense orgasm. Best of all, it’s easy to learn and do. No tongue gymnastics are required. (at end of the article is a guide)
Have her get comfortable in a reclined position, her legs open. Make sure that you kiss, suck, and lick her thighs, her navel and all of the areas around her vagina. Do not make premature contact with her vagina. As she slowly becomes more aroused, continue teasing her with your tongue and lips and slowly massage her vagina.
When she is ready, position your head so that it is perpendicular to her body. Place two fingers on either side of the hood of her clitoris and slowly run your tongue back and forth, and over and under the hood. In other words, your head should be at a 90 degree angle to her, and you will be licking up and down, but because you are perpendicular, your tongue will travel from side to side.
Place the flat of your thumb or finger on her perineum – the area of skin between the anus and the vagina – and gently apply pressure without moving. The pressure on the perineum stimulates the anal sphincter muscles, which are the strongest muscles involved in female orgasm and really heighten the pleasure. Many women experience a deeper orgasm from the connection they feel between their clitoris and their perineum.
Continue stimulating her clitoral hood, slowly increasing your speed. As you feel her nearing orgasm, transfer your tongue to the head of her clitoris. Continue to stimulate and hold her while she climaxes. Let her enjoy herself and continue to stimulate her until she lets you know you can stop.
The Guide:
How does the Kivin method work?
Rather than coming in from between the legs, the giver comes in from the side. They need to place the index finger and thumb either side of the clitoris to raise and steady it, and then instead of licking up and down the vulva, you are going from side to side - straight across the clitoral hood. This helps to stimulate a wider area of the clitoris than conventional methods usually used."
Kivin method positioning
It is best to approach over the thighs rather than underneath. With the left hand, the giver also needs to place the middle finger on the perineum (the area between the vagina and the anus) to feel for muscle contractions. As you feel your partner nearing orgasm, begin to concentrate on the head of the clitoris with the tongue.
So, the theory is that you're trying three new variations, "side-on approach, hand position and licking across the the clitoral hood.
What does the Kivin method really feel like?
Reddit user sreed1 tried it out with his wife, and he says, "The other hand is supposed to feel for muscle contractions at, and apply light pressure to, the perineum. My wife found that unpleasant, but I soon found that gently pressing my finger against her anal sphincter worked really well! The key is to keep the pace and pressure consistent (probably true of oral sex in general for most people.) After a little awkwardness feeling out the right positioning for me and for her leg, as well as working out what to do with my hands, she was soon responding very positively. She came within about five minutes of me finding the rhythm and best hand position. This was definitely a big change - I often go 15-20 minutes and have her teetering on the edge without managing to get her to come."
Don't think of the Kivin method as a guaranteed orgasm, though
What is exciting about Kivin is that it encourages experimentation and stimulation of alternative erogenous zone. My advice is to give it a try - it may well work for you, but if it doesn't it will still take you to exciting new places as a couple."
And remember, orgasms shouldn't always be the end goal of sex. The pressure to have an orgasm or make someone else orgasm (especially within three minutes) can lead to performance anxiety and may stop you from enjoying it all together. So while it can be fun to try, make sure you're doing it in good spirits.
