Welcome to another episode of S-Spot with Salty Vixen. Today's episode is titled "Does Your Girlfriend Hate Blow Jobs? Five Tips to Get More Head". One of the most popular post on this site is What Girls Hate About Sucking Cock, and judging from keywords that take y’all are searching, I gather that this is quite the problem. Are you not getting enough head? Do you dream of more blow jobs? Is your cock feeling a bit neglected? Here are some tips to help you get more head, even if you think your girlfriend, wife, or partner hates blow jobs:
Tip #1: Make it romantic for her.
I like it rough. I like when a guy fucks my throat hard, even if I gag and my eyes tear up. I want to be abused. But you know what? I don’t think most girls are into that. In fact, I think most girls are pretty vanilla, even if they lean more sub than dom. So stop trying to stick your cock down her throat! Gagging isn’t fun (for most girls) and not being able to deepthroat can be embarrassing.
So make it a romantic activity. Take turns licking chocolate syrup off one another, for example. First, she gets the bottle and can squirt some anywhere she wants you to lick. Then it’s your turn. When she is sucking your cock, run your hands through her hair lightly and tell her how beautiful she looks with your cock in her mouth. Adding a little romance will make her feel less like a whore as she’s going down on you.
Tip #2: Clean up down there.
It goes without saying that you should have good hygiene, but the fact of the matter is that it doesn’t matter how often you shower. If you’ve had your cock in your pants for a few hours, it probably isn’t very fresh. If you know some sexy time will be going down soon, excuse yourself to the bathroom and take a moment to freshen up. Just wash your cock off quickly. It makes all the difference.
Also, keep your pubes trimmed neatly or (even better) shave. No girl likes hair in her mouth and it makes it easier to stay fresh if you don’t have a huge man brush.
Tip #3: Make your big finish less scary.
Some girls avoid sucking cock because they don’t like the taste of semen or are afraid that she’ll gag when you burst in her mouth. Make it less scary for her. Ask her where she wants you to cum – giving her the control will make her less likely to fear a finish in her mouth if she doesn’t want it. You can also wear a condom. The taste is less pleasant while she’s sucking, but it’s definitely safer and she doesn’t have to worry about cum in her mouth.
If you do want to release down her throat, think about changing your habits to make your cum tastier. Yes, diet does play a role. If you eat a balanced diet with plenty of fruits and veggies, your cum will taste better. In my experience, smoking also plays a role. If you aren’t ready to give up the cigs, at least give up the cheap brands that smell really, really bad. I’ve found that those brands make your cum taste really bad too.
Tip #4: Get your blow job before she orgasms.
After I orgasm, I’m spent. If I’m going to keep fucking around, I want to just let you fuck me for awhile. I’m winding down. I love blow jobs enough and am submissive enough to still give you head after I’ve cum, but you’ll get a much more enthusiastic blow job if you fuck my face first. I think that’s where a lot of guys go wrong. They’re focused on pleasing their girl, which is great, but they neglect their own needs until afterward. Foreplay isn’t just about her, believe it or not. If you want great head, just go for it. Return the favor after she’s had time to suck your cock a little first and then finish off either with sex or with more head.
Tip #5: Date the right girl.
Lastly, if you want great blow jobs, don’t take the ice princess who is super uptight about sex. Your sexual relationship is important. No matter how awesome you two might be together outside of the bedroom, if there isn’t a connection between the sheets too, your relationship is going to suck. So many couples end up divorcing or being stuck in an unhappy relationship because there’s not a meeting of the minds when it comes to sex. Don’t fool yourself into believe that it isn’t important. Look for a girl who’s enthusiastic and open to trying new things, and you’ll get much better blow jobs.
XOXO,
