In general, men require more sexual activity than women. Testosterone simply takes control of the male head -both of them- and affirmative action often follows these sexual urges. The overwhelming strength of men's sexual desires generate negative reactions and pre-conceptions from their female counterparts: women conclude that the only thing men want from them is sex.
Sex is obviously not the only thing women bring to a relationship, but men need it and have to find ways to tell women that they want it. Here are some ways to ask your partner for some sexual healing.
I Want You:
The best way to tell her you want to fool around, is to point out how much you desire her at that moment. Tell her you're feeling full of energy, your temperature is rising and give her some raw animal energy. Using this technique can often give her the impression that you're a sex addict using her for sex. Vary your approach with more subtle methods such as the ones listed below in order for her to get the message.
A successful way to obtain sexual favors is by touching her softly. When lying in bed, start touching her delicately from her feet up to her inner thighs. Slowly move your way up her body, massaging her nipples gently so that she's aroused; give her sensations she cannot resist. Once she gets a lick of arousal, it's only a matter of time before she begins caressing you in return.
Make Her Feel Good:
Another way to get attention is to rub yourself on your partner when you are cuddling. She will feel something hard against her leg and may want to fulfill your sexual needs. If this does not work, simply remind her that you will leave her alone and sleep better afterwards.
Another technique is to go behind her and kiss her neck. When kissing her neck passionately, slowly escalate to her ear lobes and whisper that you want to get intimate with her. Be imaginative: tell her she looks sexy and that you want to make passionate love to her all night long. Give her varying compliments each time so she remains entertained and does not get bored. The idea is to use positive reinforcement: give her signals she will recognize and she will follow-up with the right response.
The secret to getting constant sexual intimacy with the same partner is to ensure diversity in your approach. Try to mix and match techniques and you will both be happy. Finally, give her all the affection that she needs and she will give you what you need in return.
