If you follow the simple tips below you will achieve not only more pleasure for you but make your partner have a memorable orgasm to.
Let’s look at the female orgasm and the 6 simple tips to make it happen.
Most women view sex as both an emotional and physical experience and are generally not as easily aroused as men.
It is important that they don’t feel like sex objects for male gratification, so take time to be considerate and let your partner know you really care.
Female orgasm comes from the mind as much as the body.
To relax your partner you need to have plenty of foreplay. Keep in mind there are many erogenous zones apart from the obvious ones.
To give a couple of examples 80% of women don’t believe that their partners kiss them enough, so do it. Another great erogenous zone is the neck; kissing or nibbling it will drive your partner wild with desire.
The buttocks what women doesn’t feel self conscious about her behind? Show her you appreciate it, stroke it and kiss it and remember – All these gestures add up.
There are many more erogenous zones and we have written on 12 others in previous articles that most men don’t think about so discover them.
Women simply loVe oral sex and can orgasm from it easier sometimes than sexual intercourse, so perfect your art. Oral sex does not just mean a quick lick – it’s a specific technique.
Plenty of oral sex (10 – 15 minutes) will get your partner in the mood and relax her.
Many women claim their men come too quickly. If that’s you then you need to slow down or vary the pace.
Sex is not simply about orgasm for you, the build up is pleasurable and it will come eventually, so take your time to give your partner a chance to come to - Don’t leave her frustrated.
Breathe deeply and slowly this will help you prolong sex and you can also synchronise your breathing with your partners, which will be highly erotic for both of you and give the feeling of becoming “one” in sexual union together.
If you haven’t tried it do so it’s very erotic.
Your main aim is to target the g spot to give a pleasurable female orgasm, there are really 3 positions that work well for this and there mentioned in writings thousands of years ago and they still work.
We have discussed these fully before so check these positions out.
Don’t use such complicated positions all you do is concentrate on holding the position or one you have seen in a porn movie hitting the g spot is much easier than that.
Lose yourself in the act and use visualization.
Imagine a warm glow, in the pelvic region going out to the extremities of the body.
Doing this concentrates your mind on one thing and one thing only - What you are doing and everything else doesn’t matter.
Visualization is used to achieve many things in life and can be used as a powerful tool in helping you help your partner achieve orgasm.
Try the above tips and you will make your partner feel relaxed, excited, wanted and loved and you will both enjoy more satisfying sex.
