A woman has a lot of erogenous zones. But one that is universally known is her breasts. You really can't give a sexual massage if you don't give enough attention - and respect - to woman's lovely pair of breasts.
However, sadly, a lot of men manhandle breasts! Worse, many of you guys think that we love you pinching, grabbing, and even biting them. Ok, maybe we don't mind as much in the middle of a really, wild romp between the sheets but for the most part, doing that hurts!
So how do you ensure that you don't cause pain when sexually massaging her breasts? Read on!
Six Ways to Sexually Massage your Lover's Breasts Without Hurting Her
Cupping and Scratching
During the sexual massage, your woman should be naked and so should you! For this particular massage though, ask her to sit up. Now sit directly behind her.
Your warm, naked bodies should be slick from massage oil so that you almost glide against each other.
Ask her to lean or rest on your body. You can bend your knees to support both your weights. Now, reach up from behind and cup hear breasts very gently. Circle her breasts with your hands lightly.
You can also try to 'scratch' her chest as well as the side of her breasts a little bit. (Be sure you have clean and short nails!) If you have some other fabrics like satin or velvet, brush them over her breasts.
You can also do the 'buzzer technique', which is to use your index fingers and gently press on her nipples (as you would press a very light buzzer or button). Still using your index fingers, circle her nipple until they become hard peaks.
So you both don't get too carried away and have sex right there and then, alternate circling her nipples with covering her whole breast with your hand. Sort of like a game of 'tease/stimulate and rest'.
The Ray Stubbs Technique (Get the book on Amazon.com here)
I love this technique. It was created by the well-known Californian masseur Ray Stubbs. (I think he should win the Noble Prize for this!) In this technique, have her lie on her back.
Part 1: Lay your hands flat on her chest. Slide your hand sway from each other, going over her breasts and ending at her upper shoulder. Repeat these strokes 6-8 times.
Part 2: Dip your fingertip into some massage oil. Starting from the outer edges, trace the outline of her breast. Continue with this circular motion, making the circle smaller and smaller until you reach her areola, and finally, her nipple.
Do this one breast at a time. This enhances her awareness of what you are doing. Do this step as often as you like (or as far as she can take it.)
Part 3: Now - very gently - squeeze a little skin at the each side of her nipple (just at the edges of her areola), and then very lightly pull and slide your fingers outwards (as if you're gently tugging at something on opposite directions).
Do this on all sides of her areola (left and right side, top and bottom side, etc.). Do the same on her other breast.
Part 4: Dip your thumb and forefinger in massage oil. Very gently squeeze your woman's nipple, lift it up and allow your fingers to 'slide off' (as if her nipple was slipping from your grasp).
For better sexual stimulation, use both hands alternately so that the action - and the sexual sensation - are continuous. Of course, repeat this massage on the other nipple.
Just when she feels that she can't take anymore, and just when staring at her erect nipple and the feeling of it slipping from your fingertips has brought you to near ejaculation... stop.
I know, this sounds cruel. But trust me. You don't want to have sex just yet. You want to go 'higher'!
However, when I say 'stop' I don't mean get up and leave the room! Just stop doing Part 4 of the Ray Stubbs technique and star to cup hear breasts again.
Go and kneel by the top of hear head, facing her body (her head should be positioned between your knees). Reach down and put your palms under/below her breasts. Now, sweep your palms up (like you would brush your hair form your eyes).
Keep doing this and by the eight stroke, proceed to fully cover or cup her breasts. Hold this position, letting your closed hand warm her breasts so that she feels completely naked but for that part of her that you've got covered.
