Question:Â These days my partner is far away from me and he wants me to make him climax on phone. Please tell me how to do that or at least tell me some very hot lines to make this happen for him. Thanks!
Answer: Phone sex can feel a little intimidating because it forces you to be creative and open with your feelings and desires. If you don't have a very open relationship right now, phone sex can make you feel closer sexually. The secret is to really want to do it. If you don't feel comfortable about it, tell your partner and try to find another way to stimulate each other--maybe through sensual letters. For those daring enough to try, here are a few role-playing ideas to get him going!
Encounter 1: Dreams And Desires
This phone encounter is perfect if you're trying to overcome shyness. When the subject is approached, start by talking about memories of your favorite sexual encounters with that partner. Go into detail about why you liked certain things. If you feel more daring, explain in further detail something you would like to try with your partner. Or, share a story of your ideal lovemaking experience. Phrases to help you get started include:
- If you were here, I'd like to...
- Last time we made love I loved it when...
- I wish you were here so I could...
- Do you like it when I do...
Encounter 2: What I'm Doing Right Now
Late at night, or when your partner least expects it, give him a call. Then without any hesitation begin to tell him a story about what you're doing right now. You don't have to actually be doing it, just make him think you are. If you know of a secret fantasy your partner has, this could be a perfect opportunity to create the next best thing.
Encounter 3: 1-900-ME
Have your partner call you at an agreed about time, and have him pretend he has just called a sex hot line number. Then in your most sultry and dominating voice proceed to tell him exactly what he should do. Warn him the threat of misbehaving is for you to hang up.
