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Week One - Setting The Stage

During this first week you'll be doing a lot of sweet, getting to re-know your partner acts. Whatever the temptation, do not have sex. This week is about romancing your partner and restrengthening your intimacy, trust and true affection for each other. Before you start this program you may want to give your love a little note with a small gift telling them you are planning a little something for them for the next three weeks. You might want to include that they'll be noticing a few changes and ask them to be supportive and not to ask questions regarding what you're doing. Of course, you may opt to not tell your partner as well. It is a personal choice.

The following are your projects for week one.

Write a sweet one page or more love note every few days. Leave it in various places where they can see it.
Plan a romantic meal, even if it's a midnight dessert by candlelight, after the kids are asleep.

Go and buy at least two light romantic games and play them at least twice this week. By light I mean not too sexually involved. Two good games are A Romantic Evening and Romantic Rendezvous. Most game shops will have these. If not, try a romance gift shop on the web.

Leave as many small tokens of affection you can muster up in places they will find. For ex. a heart cutout in a box with a note saying, "You'll always have my heart."; a scenic postcard with a note on the back stating, "Wishing we were there."; An old photograph of the two of you (or other memorable moment) with a note describing why this moment was memorable to you, emphasizing the romantic aspects of your memory.

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Take some time out of each day to ask how your partner's day went and be ready to listen open-heartedly to their answer.

If possible, stay up all night. Leave them a note letting them know what you've planned. Dig up old board games, rent a few movies you've been meaning to watch and stock up on snack foods! In the morning, go outside, cuddle together and watch the sunrise.