[Once again while writing this post I realized there is so much to say that–yet again–the blowjob post is becoming more of a blowjob series. Tonight’s post is about getting all the stuff in your head to come out through your eyes. Tomorrow will be about actual hand/mouth/tongue technique. Unless there’s another to-be-discovered tangent, which is very much a possibility.]
Only half of what makes a blowjob so great is the technique. What pushes a good blowjob over the edge into sweet-merciful-crap-WOW is your attitude, i.e. making it obvious to the guy that you love sucking his cock.
Let’s go back and repeat that last part slowly: make it obvious to the guy that you love sucking his cock.
Make it obvious to the guy that you love sucking his cock.
I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH.
I have met/heard of very very few women who love sucking dick and yet were not good at it. Loving it and being good at it go hand in hand. Or dick in mouth. Either way, it’s a happy coupling.
If you love dick, I mean really relish it, crave it–that shows in your eyes. AND THAT IS FUCKING HOT AS HELL.
This is why I had to start with last night’s post, Blowjobs Are Not Icky. If you want to be able to give good head, first you need to get over yourself.
I’ve been told that many women don’t want to give blowjobs because they feel insecure about it, that they won’t do a good job. Well, you’re kind of shooting yourself in the foot there. If you think you’re bad, then you probably will be bad. Being self-conscious will fuck you up everytime. And let me tell you–the bedroom is the one place you should leave all self-consciousness behind. That’s why supposedly why sex is so fun, remember?
So just shoot the middle finger to your Insecurity Fairy and go for it. Don’t hold back. Come on, you hold back all goddamn day at work, the bedroom is the place to let loose. Dive in to the situation with eagerness. You want to do a good job, you want to have fun, you want him to enjoy it. Holding back is NOT the way to get there.
This is the time you let your inner vixen come out. It’s just you and your man. Don’t you want him to know how much you want him? How much you want to ravish him, to suck him off, to lose yourself in him. That is hot. The main way that comes out is in the eyes.
That’s right. Nothing can make sex hotter than eyes that say “I crave you and your body I want to fuck you hard but first I’m going to suck you off and I can’t wait another minute to taste your cum in my mouth.”
THAT COMES OUT IN THE EYES. Have you heard the term “giving good face?” Notice the ambiguity in the meaning? Yuh huh there’s a reason for that.
Nothing is hotter than eye contact. Especially if the guy’s own hard dick in your mouth is in the line of sight between your eyes and his.
Think about it—
Girl sucking off dick: feels nice. ooh la la.
Girl sucking off dick with enthusiasm: yeaaaaaaah baby.
Girl sucking off dick with enthusiasm and eyes that say all the dirty things she can’t say verbally because her mouth is full: –insert orgasm face here–
Then team the fuck-me eyes with the three-point contact technique*? No guy will ever forget you.
*tomorrow’s post. I learned this from a British guy, so my hat off to all of you from across the sea.
