Honesty is not only the secret ingredient for a perfect relationship, but it is also essential to self happiness. Yet for some reason it is often easily overlooked, or sometimes completely abandoned. With the word of dating apps, you know- Tinder, Bumble, Facebook Dating and so on so many people lie. In the last week I had a man tell me he went to his grandmother's 90th birthday. After a little research, dear ol' Grandma passed 15 years ago. Unless she is a vampire, then that was a lie. Meaning, a lot of people pretend to be single when they are not.
Another is, man says "I don't do hook-ups" us women are like "phew a normal man". He talks with 10 other women to get dates. One man forgot he had a date with me, then told me a story he went to a soccer game. There was no soccer game lol. A simple google search is how I find out about these things.
A lot of he liars/cheaters know that many women won't do the hook up culture, so that is why they lie. Look, I am sick of being single. Most of us are, so why do men just want to pump and dump or let that cock out for thrusting play and move on? A lot of people know where Salty Vixen comes from- two parts:
1. I was sexually assaulted on a polo field in England 18 June 2004 by someone who is associated with a famous person. He is good mates with that person.
2. i was in a sexting relationship with someone off and on for 2 years and 10 months. I am still bitter about it as it ended 4 years ago. I have moved on, just bitter that he lied during our whole relationship, want to know? He was married! oh and FYI, dude told me he was married the morning after my 20th high school reunion. We had been sexting and video-sex for a long time . And did he stop ? Nope. he wold text me afterwards, to say "We are friends" and wanted a verbal booty call. Because of him, I took my verbal words and made money from it- oh and this happens a lot to writers of erotica. I wonder if he reads my smut? I would be flattered if he did as he said he wanted me to do my best and gain confidence, so dude, I thank you for that.
Back to my thought. and this thought is what most people think:
I hate cheaters. I hate liars.
For me it is all about honesty, all the time.
Don’t lie.
Be honest with yourself. Be honest with me.
Don’t obscure the truth.
Been there:
Yes, you are absolutely right. Of course you deserve to go out and fuck the first slut you find. You’re a horny hunk and I won’t let you fuck me because I want a relationships. I make it clear on the dating apps. Oh, and you were drunk as well?
Done that:
Sure you love me and can’t bear to be without me, but we have to hide our relationship because your girlfriend is a psycho-bitch and she will chop your balls off if you break up with her. Oh, you poor darling!
NEVER AGAIN.
Never again will I be part of a deceit. Never again will I put up with a cheat. Never again will I be lied too. I would rather be stabbed in the back with the blunt truth than be sprinkled with sugar-coated lies.
I may be a slut, but I am a slut with morals and my words.
I may go home with anybody, but I won’t go home with everybody.
Check your bag of tricks at the door please and don't lie to me, oh and men on dating apps, women we research EVERYTHING, so any lie you say about your 'single' life that isn't single will be found out.Â
