Alpha males.
What is it about them that attracts women?
That is a question that a lot of so called nice guys try to wrap their heads around and most of the time – they come up with conclusions that are a little bit off base. So, in this post, I want to talk about why women are attracted to alpha males.
This is good to know if you are out there trying to attract women or if you are hoping to be able to attract back your ex girlfriend. Knowing WHY women respond to alpha males can help you figure out what you need to do to get better results with women.
Why are women attracted to alpha males?
Some guys will say it is the asshole quality that these guys have. That’s what I meant when I said that nice guys often come to conclusions that are off base. It’s not the asshole quality that women respond to. It’s the OTHER qualities that really get her turned on. You CAN be an alpha male and still be a very nice guy.
Here are some of the qualities that alpha males have that women are looking for:
- The ability to provide leadership
- The confidence to pull her up when she is having a bad day
- The “who cares” attitude that makes her feel like she can have fun
- The dominant male energy that works on a primal level to spark serious sexual attraction
Let’s talk about these alpha male qualities that attract women –
Women look to a man to provide some kind of leadership in their life. Even women who are totally independent outside of the relationship still want a man that they can rely on. She might be a go-getter at work. She might be the alpha female when she is with her friends. She STILL wants an alpha male to lead her in the relationship.
They want to be able to come to their man after having a shitty day and know that he is going to make them feel better. I don’t mean by saying things like, “Honey, tell me all of your problems.” I mean, they want YOU to snap them out of that state that they are in. Make her feel good again.
Alpha males do that.
When you have that “who cares” vibe, she knows that she can have fun around you and not feel self conscious about it. She knows that she can be a good and it’s okay. Really, she knows that she can be herself. That’s why that quality reigns supreme and why it is so attractive to a woman.
Finally, alpha males give off that dominant male energy that translates into wicked sexual attraction. The kind of heat that women read about in those silly romance novels. The kind of attraction that makes her literally feel filled up with LUST.
Alpha males TRIGGER that response in a woman and it something that is euphoric and addictive.
Now you see what alpha males attract women and it has NOTHING to do with being an asshole. It has EVERYTHING to do with being EXACTLY what she wants, what she craves, and what she is sexually attracted to.
