Okay ladies, I know most of you THINK seducing your date is the quickest way to get him to call you back but in reality it’s the worst thing you can do—especially early on!
There are many “dating experts” that will tell you differently.
Think about it. There is no guaranteeing that taking it off gets a call back. It just gives the guy a great time in the moment! The problem is, the minute you leave, ladies, you are out of sight out of mind.
Why taking it all off doesn’t work
I’m not saying be a prude and cover up from the top of your neck to your ankles. I’m saying, ladies, dress to look nice and desirable as a human being not a piece of meat on display. Men don’t fall in love because of their libido.
They fall in love when they allow themselves to give up their heart. Commitment for a man is always a conscious choice. Until a man decides to commit, he will continue to play the field, often with more than one woman at a time.
Sure, most guys will gladly sleep with you, and they’ll be quite pleased with you for satisfying them. Here’s where you will get confused. Just because he sleeps with you doesn’t mean he loves you. In fact, it doesn’t even mean he LIKES you.
It just means you were willing, he was “in the mood” (which is every guy all the time) and so you did it. It in no way means anything else, in HIS mind as far as “commitment.” Rather it will be a pleasant instant gratification moment.
Another negative about jumping in the sack with your date is that the minute sex is involved, the communication level of a developing relationship seems to just freeze. However well you’ve gotten to know each other at that point seems to be as far as the relationship “depth” goes. This is a very bad consequence if you were trying to move him along the path of committing to you.
Thinking sex right away is a good idea? It’s not just you.
I can give you story after story, example after example to prove my case. I’ve seen the evidence all over America and I’ve seen it all through the entertainment industry. Those who know, I was a Non-playing member at various polo clubs in England back in 2004. I tell my story about the night I was sexually assaulted 18 June 2004 at a polo party at 10:45PM. Regardless, something I had observed, that the polo men and their famous mates, when a new woman came to the polo parties, they would talk about who they would 'shag' and it was a contest among them. Oh that did happen! Us 'polo women' , who were part of the polo men group, we lived this.
My point is, so many one night stands happened. I can tell you about one famous polo player, each polo match, the evening of the polo after parties, he had a new woman he would go back to shag and at the same time, he was dating someone else. What did the famous polo player do? Sex with that woman, and dump her- because he knew he would never see those women again, not caring what the feelings are for those women. Hell, they thought they wouldn't see me again and years later I showed up, being a patron for several charities, oh the looks on their faces when they saw me again 18 June 2016 at a polo charity event, was priceless.
Back to my point, I feel so bad for all these female celebrities (and those who hook up with the male celebrities) because they are making the same mistakes many of you are and jumping in the sack, even getting pregnant, to try and catch their man. For them, the results are worse because they’ve just given the guy bragging rights for nabbing a celeb who they didn’t have to commit to first. Kudos to the guy, sympathies for the celebrity who will soon be dumped—that is if she was ever even considered a girlfriend.
Okay, okay, enough ranting, let me close in just telling you there are many other ways to capture that man’s heart than taking it off and using your body, no matter HOW amazing your body is.
