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All sex is bad

Now when you’re having sex with someone you are madly in love with and he is madly in love with you and you are married and have four beautiful children it feels like ecstasy. You are on top of the world. But then the next day when he seems to have forgotten you and he’s off playing video games and you start to remember that he had several sexual partners before you met and you had none, and you feel like you want to die, then you realize all sex is bad. You only want it it because that is nature’s way of tricking you into re-populating the species.
—Guest havingabadday

It’s Simple

Bad sex is mechanical sex. It’s plumbing sex, full of technique and focused on ‘best practice’. Bad sex is uncaring sex, disconnected sex. Bad sex is when you have it for all the wrong reasons (and there are a million wrong reasons). Bad sex is empty sex. Bad sex is meaningless sex. Sex is communication. Sex is an activity performed within a context created by a relationship. That context is both historical and anticipatory. It is exactingly real and it is a dream of what may be. If there is no relationship…no context….then sex as an activity which has meaning only within context, becomes nothing. It becomes everything everyone here describes. Sex becomes Bad….the Communication no more than noise. But, given Context….then anything is possible. The monomaniacal mistake is in thinking that sex is a singularity. Is sex sweaty and animalistic? Certainly. Is it ethereal and transcendent? Absolutely. Is it experimental & exciting, traditional and soothing?
—Zalmar

what is the difference between oooh and aahhhh? two inches……either size of being able to hit that spot makes a big difference…its not worth it to me not to have an orgasm after bringing my partner over the top every time
—Guest ice

The only bad sex is losing my beloved long-distance girlfriend (or WORSE, local girlfriend) to a rival before we even HAD sex!
—Vallin

Bad sex is giving the man my all…sucking his dick to mindblowing ecstasy then twiddling my toes in frustration as I wait in vain for his ‘out of this world pussy job’…screw that…best i masturbate alone at home
—Guest dontneedit

My first time was extremely painful, and when the pain stopped it was just boring. All I wanted was for him to be done. That was two years ago and I havent had a relationship since because I felt like if I got a boyfriend he’d want to have sex and I just didnt feel like it was worth the energy to undress. Now I’m afraid that my lack of experience has doomed me to a life of bad sex. All of this could have been avoided if my ex had taken his time instead of shoving it in me the second he got his pants off.
—Guest sadpanda

I’ve only ever been with my fiance. He is terrible at sex. I’ve always been taught that a woman HAS to protect the man’s ego, but I am tired of faking at my expense. I would rather there was no foreplay, because at least it would be over faster. Of course, that’s not a huge problem, pun intended, because he is very small and can’t even go for two minutes. I’m told that he is average, but I highly suspect men write those articles, and say that so other men don’t feel bad. I’ve given up the hope of ever being satisfied by him. I’ve even grown to resent him on many levels, because he always gets his, and I’ve never had mine. We’ve tried talking, role playing, and all sorts of other things. He’s just bad at sex, and after ten years, I’m done. I’ll never cheat, because I’m not that sort of person. I just wish he could at least TRY to get better. I even watched bj movies to try and get better at my own techniques. Not him, though.
—Guest depressedfemme

My girlfriend has a few more inhibitions than I. We have great vanilla sex (which I love also) but it just isnt quite enough as I would rather be taken “round the world”. I told her I like receptive anal (plugs etc) but it freaks her out. Starting to realize this may be doomed…..shame cos I really love her.
—shnim1

Been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. We have it good occasionally, but most of the time it’s bad!! The relationship’s so good, I put up with it, god-forbid. I try EVERYTHING. Different positions, different places, different techniques, etc. But when the sex finally gets good again, he can’t hold out or get’s tired (writer’s lifestyle).
—Guest couldf**katoasterbynow

My first time I did with a girl and we where a good match. After a couple of dates and exploritive texting we decided to go all the way the next time we meet. After the first 10 min of great sex, my junk slipped out and as I lean up to put it back in there was a very unwanted surprise. My junk looked like a candycain gone VERY wrong and I casualy say ” umm there’s blood on my d**k”. That is bad sex….
—Guest Army_Scout20

My previous boyfriend and I were madly in love for a good six months or so (at least it seemed that way to me), but somewhere along the line he stopped trying to do foreplay with me before sticking it in. Even when i told him that I was in pain, or that I was hurting every time we had sex, he would completely forget the next time and still refused to do foreplay when he wanted his fix immediately. In my blind love for him, this lead to me sometimes faking orgasms through screaming in agony. Just know that if the guy you’re with doesn’t want to take the time or disregards any feedback (even if it’s when you’re close to tears), run. Took me seven more months of our relationship for me to realize that before dumping him. Don’t be that love-sick dumb ass that I was
—Guest Wickedgreen

So we’d been together almost 3 years and the first 2 months of sex was good I guess because it was new but since then its been HORRIBLE. I’m tired of faking and I’m most definitely tired of him thinking it’s so great.. Bad sex for me is no foreplay or minimal foreplay, bunny rabbit pumping , dry fingering and the worst part of all HORRID oral..I might sound like I’m complaining but you try putting up with this for at least 4 nights a week sometimes 2xs nite I’m about ready to cheat.
—Guest canitgetanyworse

man: What do you like? woman: I don’t know… man: what turns you on? woman: I don’t know… man: do you like this (as he’s doing whatever).. woman…I don’t know… woman: why are you leaving? man: I DON ‘T KNOW!? Nothing worse than BAD SEX.
—Guest no hang ups

Bad sex is when it lasts at most 2 minutes with no foreplay, one pump, and he wants to cuddle afterward. Seriously, I’d rather masturbate than ever have to go through that again.
—Guest Jenya

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