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I’m A Virgin

I am a 19 year old virgin, soooo…… Does that mean i should just never even try to have sex? Virgins get a bad rep for being bad at sex but everyone has to start somewhere i guess. Is it fair to break up with a person who gave u bad sex if u were their first? And another thing, women usually just lie there during sex anyway. most of the time they don’t even do anything, so, doesn’t that mean that part of it is their fault too? I feel like there’s always so much pressure on the guys performance.
—Guest TheNewKid

Bad Sex Is In the Mind

The problem is not with yourself, or your body. The problem is the mind, and its recordings. During pregnancy and birth things happen that leave ‘recordings’ in the baby’s subconscious memory. These memories contain words and actions that really make no sense out of context, but affect and change behavior patterns. Including attitudes to sex, and mood. The function of the mind (memories) will control functions of the body.
—Guest Gilbert

With my girlfriend she always wants to orgasm which I think is great except it takes 20 minutes of various foreplay to achieve this and in the end by the time I actually get it in the anticipation makes me come early and now I’m unhappy and don’t want sex anymore.
—Guest Blahsex

First, my girlfriend wanted the perfect scenario. Fine. Then she wanted lots of foreplay. No problem. Then she laid there silently during the deed and never made an attempt to move, let alone reciprocate. Next time, I’m going bowling.
—Guest Sick0fStarving

The ONE thing that can instantly kills it for me is when he pulls the jack rabbit move. When the sex is plain, no rhythm, no caresses or kisses. No grabbing or spanking. No variety. All one speed, all over in one minute (or 5 if you play your cards right.. Boo) and you’re left there wondering what the hell just happened? My boyfriend thought this kind of sex was amazing– being extremely turned on, ‘going at it at full speed’, it’s primitive, etc. Whatever.. I get it.. But, I knew that if I never said anything about how our sex wasn’t satisfying, there was a good chance I’d be A) cheating on him soon B) faking orgasms and ultimately ruining my own sex life, not to mention missing out.. Or C) single. So long story short, I had to man handle him a few times, find ways to vocalize what I liked and didn’t like without killing the mood or his confidence as well as do some exploring for myself and found out what he likes, or loves. The best thing about bad sex is turning it into AMAZING sex
—Guest Melia.Arie.

When my wife feels like having sex, she demands it. But when it is my turn she turns me down. I later discovered that it is because she earns a better salary than I do. I’m tired of begging for sex and now thinking of having a girlfriend. NOT MY WISH. It’s painful!!!
—Guest nicholas seweje

I’m not talking, foreplay for 10 seconds then sex. I’m talking, really nice, steamy, slow, make-you-go-crazy hot foreplay. But it sucks when you’re a teen and your mom expects you home by a certain time >:(
—Guest kenkakes

Bad sex is when a man does not care whether you have had an orgasm, doesn’t care when you mention it nicely, always wants and receives pleasure from you and then gets up one second later, pulls on his underwear and says he is thirsty and leaves the room.
—Guest sharona

I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years. We’re very close, always affectionate. Then a year ago, I found out that she’s never had an orgasm, with me or past boyfriends. 98% of our foreplay has always been me pleasuring her, and she’s never felt comfortable with me going down on her, or using sex toys. Then, we started having sex less and less, and it often ended negatively, with her feeling self conscious or uncomfortable, and me feeling like a jerk. But now, all I have ever done is focus on her pleasure, she doesn’t respond at all, then I don’t get any service back, so I lose interest too….and by this point, the idea of sex with her is just floating out of my mind. Still a horny guy though. Just wish I could make her sexually happy.
—Guest outofmymind

Feeling that you owe your partner sex, and doing it before dinner, so after dinner he will just fall asleep. You don’t like being turned down and all the work of being intimate. Being intimate is not work.
—Guest dinnerlast

Ladies, if your guy wants sex, consider yourself extremely fortunate. My bf never wants sex unless it’s after WEEKS of begging and crying. I’ve tried everything from lingerie, to porn, role playing, etc. No dice. So, to me, never wanting sex except once a month? Now, THAT’S bad sex waiting to (not) happen.
—Guest Frustrated

Whenever my girlfriend and I are in bed, she always wants to do weird kinky things that I’m not comfortable with. For example, she has the ugliest troll looking feet that she always wants to use whenever we’re naked. and she has a thing for strap-ons yes strap-ons and I’m a guy you do the math.
—Guest Trollololol

I’m a young person who decided that sex would come early, and the issue here is the VIRGINS. I keep away from them ever since my now ex asked me, “Where’s the hole?” What am I a sex ed teacher?
—Guest Charmander

The thing is, we anticipated and I expected something explosive. Guess what. i did experience pleasure and i know he did, too, but what, in 3 minutes tops?? I don’t know, but somehow I felt that i did something wrong. It’s our first time to do it and I absolutely have no idea why he finishes so fast. I was literally aching for more.
—Guest flutterby

I’ve been with my boyfriend for at least 5 months. And oh Buddha…the sex for the first three was SO GOOD. 2 months ago I went away to Georgia for 2 weeks and then came back and he left for a week. That’s when it went down hill. I dunno what happened but he lost his mojo. We initiate and it’s good. We are both just craving each other and that’s good. Foreplay is GOOD…then the sex comes along and he finishes so early it can literally take two minutes. I feel like I’m doing something wrong but he says I’m not, he’s not either but he just cant keep it going long enough for me to get even the slightest bit of pleasure. Obviously when its not passionate and creative when it used to be tha’ts bad sex to me. Maybe it was a good things don’t last sort of situation, but damn this is crap.
—Guest Miss Indy

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