Good sex is never just a matter of technique. Knowing how to have sex means more than just knowing the right way to move, the right thing to say, or the right product to buy. In fact, the better you get at sex, the more I would say you learn that there is no right or wrong at all. Sex is constantly changing as we do. But it's nice to have somewhere to start any new exploration, and these sex how tos are meant as just that, a good place to start.