Ok, let me start off will a little biology lesson. For those out there that don't know, the clit is on the TOP. It is separated from the anus by the expanse of the vagina.
Ok ... that said (and yes, I have seen that mistake made. I thought that is might have been a typo ... we ALL make them, until I read more by that author. Needless to say, I got my laugh for the day) let us also talk about stimulating said clit.
Regardless of what you may have heard/read/been told MOST (notice I say most, not all, since there have been known to be exceptions to a lot of rules) women need at least some direct clit stimulation to orgasm. This is a real life fact ... so shouldn't it also be carried over to erotic stories?
I have had the extreme joy (and I say joy since I got a good laugh) to read stories where the male/female with a strap-on is primed and ready and just thrusts a cock (fake or real) into their female lover and she orgasms from the thrusting with NO interaction with her clit at all. Yes, some women may have this ability, just as some women can orgasm just by having their nipples rubbed, BUT most can't.
I know to each his/her own ... and that every writer has a right to write what they feel that they must write. <smiles> It just bothers me that this seems to be a going trend with a lot of new writers. How do I know this you ask? Well let's just say I have the pleasure of reading through at a minimum of a hundred erotic stories a week looking for the gems I find and request to post here.
New writers are learning from what is out there ... and what is out there is growing steadily less informative and realistic. True, there is a trend of GREAT writers emerging, but by and large, they are hard to find. What is readily available is slowly becoming lowest common denominator porn, instead of quality erotica. This, worries me. I work hard to provide a haven for erotic author who wish to display their works. I work hard to provide a well laid out site, with quality erotic stories for my viewers. And my neighborhood is going to hell, real quick.. The smaller sites are getting to be more quality while the largest sites, are turning into collections of whatever is submitted. And as there is more room made for badly written, non realistic drivel ... it will continue to be produced.
And the clit will sadly, continue to be neglected. It is such a fun little bundle of nerves to.
For more information about the female body and and the process of bringing it to orgasm... check out our "improving sex" articles:
